

I'm going to give you the no bµllsh!t answer that other people who like to put up a front to seem like nice, chaste, and honest people will not give you but know it's not lies. This might not mean he is cheating in you but you're not wrong to question it. Like if I see attractive woman on TV or something I'll say they're sexy or not and she will give a critique of my opinion and she does the same with men. So to answer your question, I guess it's open on paper and we're both under no illusion that when you're in a long term relationship or marriage you no longer find other people attractive. The tinder thing is one thing, but actually fµck!ng another woman is another. It's a fµck!ng trap and I ain't falling for it. Also, tbh, I don't trust even women who try to play nonchalant and act like they are open to actually be totally cool about it if you actually did go out and sleep with another woman and told them about it. For that reason, despite my girlfriend's permission I've never indulged. So, getting a booty call or setting up a date in hopes of getting panties usually takes more work than I'm willing to put in and it would require finding a woman who doesn't mind simply being called for xes and not much else. But the thing is, I hate most people and talking to them and this is why I've been with my girl as long as I've been with her because of similar personalities. My girlfriend has said she wouldn't care too much if I did as long as I use protection. I just made the profile to see what my possible options in an alternative timeline would be like. I know I said I was definitely going to dump him but now I don’t know what to do once I get tested.

We have disagreements from time to time but never anything out of the ordinary for a three year relationship. It’s hard not to give him the benefit of the doubt because there have been no infidelity or trust issues between us ever. Is this a thing?Īs much as I wanted to block his number and not accept any explanations, it’s been three years and I don’t want it to all be down the drain without at least hearing him out. Can anyone who either has an open Tinder account but isnt active or anyone with a closed account confirm whether Tinder does this? What still doesn’t make sense is why the tinder icon popped up for an email, but he said something about a “quick glance” feature on his phone that shows you the icon so you know what the specific email is about. What I meant was did he still have any open accounts.Īnyway he’s claiming he “always” gets emails from Tinder asking him to use the app again because they still have his email.

Idk if at the time he thought I meant did he still have an account or was he still actively seeking women on there. I have also asked him years ago if he was still on dating sites and he said no. He reminded me that he told me he’s had dating apps in the past including Tinder, which is where he met his ex.
